Let’s face it, with dick pics, ghosting, breadcrumbing (or whatever the latest phrase is), finding love isn’t always easy. The dating grind can wear down the best of us, and crystals can be the helping hand you need to send out the right energy. When choosing a crystal, it’s important to find what’s right for you, so when you’re shopping around trust your instincts and go for what you feel drawn to. But here are some suggestions for crystals you can use to attract love and a relationship.
Of course, I could not make this list without mentioning the famous love stone, rose quartz. Rose quartz has been used to attract love since 600BC, but it all starts from within. Rose quartz helps you increase your self-love and self-worth, and allow you to receive love in every aspect of your life. Once you love yourself, you are perfectly aligned to attract someone who reflects that.
Strawberry quartz crystals embody all the properties of clear quartz crystals, plus the vibrations of universal love. They can amplify your intentions of love and send that energy outwards, and can be used to attract your soulmate or “one true love”.
Not having the best luck on Tinder? Green adventurine is the stone of luck, so can be used to improve your fortunes across all aspects of life, including dating. Despite colours like red and pink being traditionally associated with romance, green is actually the colour that represents the heart chakra.
A vibrant and joyful stone, the red-toned cobalto calcite can stimulate your heart chakra and help you attract love from within. It can inspire new ways of thinking, and heighten your awareness of what kind of vibrations you are projecting into relationships, and how you are communicating with others. You can let go of any unhelpful thought patterns, negative cycles, or fears that you are not “good” enough, and heal your heart from previous bad relationship experiences. Cobalto calcite encourages positive thinking across all areas of your life, and can also help you get in touch with your sensual side.
Fed up with quick flings? Pink topaz is the stone to guide you towards the real deal. Topaz stones are traditionally manifestation stones, and with pink being the colour of romance, this is the perfect crystal to attract love.
Known as the stone of successful love, emerald stones activate the heart chakra , open your heart to new ways of experiencing love, and draw it into your life. Emerald also helps build your self-esteem if you have suffered from knockbacks, can be used to heal a broken heart, and can help break through negative patterns and behaviours, creating the right foundation to attract a new relationship.
Garnet stones symbolise love and a romantic connection. They are ideal for attracting a new lover, or reigniting the spark in a long-term relationship, and can clear baggage from previous relationships. Garnet is connected to the root chakra as well as the heart, so it can also help you get in touch with your sexuality and sense of intimacy.
Known as the stone of transformation, malachite is the perfect crystal if you want to make some changes in your love life. Malachite can help break down emotional blockages and shift away from negative thoughts and patterns that are holding you back to open your heart to new possibilities. This crystal can help you tune into feelings of unconditional love, give you the courage to be 100% yourself, and help guide you through conflict.
A stone of unconditional love, rhodocrosite is like your own personal cheerleader. Rhodocrosite has the power to support you through tough times, heartbreak, and everyday stress. It attracts love into your life by opening up the heart chakra and releasing any energy blockages.
Have you ever used crystals to attract love? Which are your favourites? Let me know in the comments!
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